So now we have another big celebrity being engulfed in the flames of sex and scandals. Tiger Woods, whose couple of extra marital affairs have surfaced recently, had been center of all media attention, putting his professional as well as personal life in daamadol situation. So that means whatever he earned from his sports for so many years has gone down the drain. Now even a kid with 0% knowledge of golf knows 100% about Tiger Woods, might not be about his golf skills but about his number of affairs and all those minute details. Mr Woods is not the first celebrity to go through this, we have a long list. But the most important thing to be thought about in all this is, what is this hoo halla about. Is it because it involves the richest sportsman of the world, or is it because that affair number is too high to add spices to it, or is it because it involves love, sex and betrayal. Whatever it may be but one thing is quiet sure, the main culprit is sex, the three letter word that can bring a high-up to the lowest level. But why??? Why is this word such a taboo. Why is that even refer of this word outside your marriage can shatter your whole family. Quiet a sensitive topic to discuss……phew. But if we think little deep into the problem instead of its consequences we might something more important, something more reasonable to this problem, if I can call it the same.
Recently I was reading in a newspaper where a judge of a Supreme court said that we all know that prostitution is the oldest surviving profession and the one which we are not able to curb, then why to fight against it, why not legalize it. Now you must be thinking that from where the hell prostitution came into picture in between the spicy Tiger Woods story. Once thought deeply we will realize that these things are all related to one thing and that is sex. We all human beings, animals, bacteria, mammals everybody who have life have requirements like we eat because the body needs food, we drink because body needs water, similarily we have sex because body needs it. Different bodies have diff requirements for everything including physical intercourse. But I think we haven’t reached the phase where we take sex as one of the body requirement, its still one thing that should be hidden from outer world, should only be discussed in closed doors, if discussed/experimented outside your home’s bedroom can lead to rocky relationships. Tiger is one of the live example who is sacrifised because of this thought process, but I think that its high time that we open our windows and change our view point towards this. We need to see it with different angle. I am not in favour of betrayal but you betray only when you know the other person is not going to see sex the way you see it. If we change the overall viewpoint we might have better relationships, lesser rapes, less people who get forcefully involved in flesh trade. Rampant nature of anything is bad including eating, drinking or sex and we need rules everywhere. Better rules can help society to have lesser divorces, STDs etc. The rules that were made earlier were applicable for those times. Everything is undergoing change so should our thought process and the rules of society to make it a better and more peaceful place to live in.
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